Sometimes we do not have any control over who we fall in love with. Our hearts do the choosing and usually, all we can do is just follow its lead. Basically because doing otherwise would only cause heartaches and maybe even heartbreaks. Disobeying your own heart is like trying to fetch water with a basket. Doing anything other than following its lead would only lead to tears. Not necessarily yours though.
When two independent individuals fall in love, certain expectations are expected. And most times, when one party falls short or is unable to properly execute his/her part of obligations, things could get a little ugly. Because love is a deep feeling of affection and when it is reciprocated or appreciated, the relationship would blossom. So if you are having a hard time placing a finger on exactly what a woman who claims to love you is capable of, here are 4 good ones out of a host of others.
1. Buy Gifts For Him
Most Women happen to hold the belief that spending of every sort falls on a man. At least in this part of the world. This belief is particularly one of the major reasons why some woman tends to feel uncomfortable whenever they are out, shopping for gifts for a man. It takes a woman who is particularly in love with you to go all out shopping, just to get you a gift with her hard-earned money.
2. Give Attention
There’s someone for everyone. And when you find the one for you, long as the love is there, everything will flow naturally and effortlessly. Giving attention is just about the least obligations expected of you when you claim to truly love someone. Otherwise, it can’t be regarded as true love. When a woman truly loves you, she’ll give you all the attention in the world. Even though some men tend to take women who give them too much-needed attention for granted. A woman who’s truly in love with a man can’t help herself.
3. Make Compromises
Compromises, or sacrifices if you like are the bedrock of any happy romantic relationship. Someone who claims to be in love with another shouldn’t even hesitate to make sacrifices that will make his/her partner happy. When there’s love, making compromises and going out of your way just to put even the smallest smile on the face of your partner wouldn’t be an issue at all.
Of course, it is normal to cry when you love someone so much. Especially when you’ve been hurt by them. When you cry for, or about someone you love so much, it can only mean either of the following things: The person hurt you, the person got hurt or the person is severely ill. Love itself is the most magical feeling ever. And sometimes it could make you smile, sometimes you laugh and other times you just cry.