God made man and woman for each other and the earlier we realize this, the better it will be for us to help ourselves to grow and become the better person we were made to be.

Marriage is beautiful!

It is to be enjoyed; not endure!

It is for two mature adults!

It is for the better and best!

It is a calling!

It is a responsibility!

It is a mission!

It is for peace!

It is a life journey!

It is an ordinance!

It is the will of God!

In the first book of the Bible, God says, “It is not good that man should be alone.” God created a woman from the body of the man and gives the woman to the man. Then God says, “For this reason, a man shall leave his mother and father and cling to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” But many regards all these as nothing.

Let me start with MEN👇

Many men today are like Adam, the reason is that they’re too busy to rule their homes. Many ministers of God are too involved in facing the ministry and neglected their homes. While other men are very busy facing their businesses and have no time for their homes. Adam was there in the garden busy doing the work(the assignment he was entrusted with by God). “And LORD God took man, and put him into the garden of Eden to dress it and keep it.” Gen. 2:15.

That was what Adam was busy doing. He had forgotten that he wasn’t alone. “And the LORD said, it is not good that man should be alone; I will make him an help.” Gen. 2:18. Adam had forgotten this. Instead of him carrying the woman along in his assignment of his, he neglected her and focus on the assignment all by himself.

He gave room for the serpent to come into his wife’s life to deceive her. Still, unfortunately, the woman hasn’t been affected negatively alone but also the man fell into the deceit and both were affected negatively. Do you know an uncovered food attracts flies? And if the owner of the eats from the food he/she may end up visiting the toilet numerously. Many husbands have renounced their wives. Their ministries and businesses have become their wives and obligations. They have given room to another man outside there, to take their positions in the hearts of their women.

Most women have fallen into the ocean of adultery today and their hearts have been stolen by strange men. Some were initiated by bad friends, evil societies, bad advice. It wasn’t their fault it is because their husbands have given them too much unnecessary space, with a nonchalant attitude.

Husbands Please you’re no more alone, you have a helpmate. Help these women, enough of adultery and divorce. Carry her along in the ministry, or the businesses. Find something, that will keep her busy(like helping her pursuit a good and standard job or open a business for her). Never leave her alone, or either with the children. She’s not created to be a full housewife alone, she’s more than that, much is deposited in her.

Do not forget she’s your helpmate. Better still, she can be at home, and at the same time running an online business, just make sure she’s engaged in doing something. Never allow a strange man, bad friends, and groups to expose her to what she needs to know from you, that you neglected.

Don’t be too busy to rule your home well. Your home is your first assignment on earth, then your ministry, and business(es). Your first ministry and business is your family, cherish them, love them, and care about them. Your family is too precious to lose its value.

Never be a foolish Potter who molds customer’s pots with a very good, and solid clay, but molds his pot with bad clay, not minding broken later. May our homes, and families never tear apart in Jesus’ name.

Many women today are like Eve, the reason is, they’re too lazy and never knew the purpose of their creations. In case you don’t know, you are created to be and help- meet. Most women outside there, are not ready to be a helpmeet with their husbands. They only want to be a full housewife without engaging them in something.

For most husbands who were into ministry, the challenges they faced from their wives are more than the ministry itself. But why?🤔 Are you so callous, oh ye purposeless wives?

Eve was there in the garden, leaving her husband all alone to do the assignment alone. Her idleness, and not knowing her purpose or value as a wife, made her bring the problem to her husband which we’re also suffering from it to date. But thank God for Christ who came for our rescue.

Many wives have made their husbands jobless men in society all because of their attitudes. While many have received countless sacked letters due to their wife’s characters. They can’t make milk, but they can pour it away(that’s the language of a purposeless wife to her husband).

Some women are not caring about the ministries or the works or businesses of their husbands. If it’s moving forward or not. All they care about is money(the money their husbands are bringing home or putting on the table). These types of women are not always available when their husbands need them in times of prayer, advice, etc. They’ve handover the spare key of the hearts of their husbands to a strange woman. They’ve allowed the spirit of adultery to dominate in the lives of their husbands.

Woman, you’re not just a woman, a mother, or a wife to your husband but a helpmate. You’re to work in hand to make your home a blissful home. Marriage is created to be blissful throughout a couples lifetime. But why are we making it unblissful for ourselves?

The earlier we know the better it will be for us to make sure that we know the purpose while we call husband and wife.

Let’s help ourselves to make our home heaven on Earth, and a beautiful place to live.

©️Opeyemi Otukoya

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